I'm single now. BF and I broke up last night. Of course, who didn't see that coming from the previous post, right? It's for the best. I'm not going to go into details, which I was going to do, because I'm tired of talking about it. Let's just say that I'm happy with the decision, and I'm surprisingly ok with it. I don't even feel that anything in my life has changed. Maybe it's because I was mostly unhappy with him lately and he lives an hour away, so I don't have things in my life to remind me of him for the most part.
The part that I find so damn shitty is that the reasons he gave me for not being happy in the relationship are the EXACT same reasons I gave him for not wanting to start dating in the first place. He didn't like that I lived an hour away (nothing I can do about that) and that I was so busy (again, nothing I can do about that, other than try to alter my schedule to work 13 days straight and take extra call so I can get a weekend off to see him, which I did, many times). He also said we were in different places in our lives and I would be moving (in a year and a half) and where would we be then? (Again, he knew that going into it, I'm only here for medical school, and residency can take me just about anywhere.) Kind of a slap in the face, huh? Oh well, I gave him fair warning. But it was my fault in the end for letting him talk me into it.
Regardless, I am taking back his Valentine's presents, which he never got since he cancelled on me, and I am going to buy myself an iPod shuffle since they are now $30 cheaper. And I like to buy things. And I like the aqua one, it's cute. And I deserve SOMETHING for Valentine's day, don't I? It's not my fault he's a prick.
Hi there!
Yours Truly
- Cinn
- 27. Female. Medical student. Makeup whore. Witty. Charming. No common sense. Love to spend money. Get distracted by glittery things. Love to travel. Candle collector. Can't program electronics. Love doggies. Bit of a pessimist. Pervert.
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14 comments:
Sorry to hear the news. This said he did sounds like a total douchebag especially in the end, and like the saying goes "better to be alone than with a douchebag". Also think that now you can spend all our off-work time on YOU, (and your cute aqua iPod).
I am really sorry to hear this, but it sounds like you made your peace with it.
Again, boys suck! If I were there by you, I would take you out to get drunk.
Sorry you had to go through that. I'm glad you've made your peace with the situation, though. I hope you find happiness as a single gal. If only I were still single myself... (didn't I already say that? lol)
There's no Wii in iPod.
(hugs)
Sounds like you are handling things just fine. Hugs to you if you need them!
Teenage daughter got the aqua ipod for Christmas - she is permanently attached to it.....
Go get you an iPod girl, live it up!!! I'm back on the blog, good to see you on here still. Love the new blog btw!!
I would say all men are pricks, but that would include myself and I am not ready to go that far...yet. :)
So go get the aqua iPod and enjoy some "me" time.
Well, it does not seem as though you are too broken up and it seems like you have this in perspective. Better that it was not a total shock and that you were mentally prepared (somewhat). As a guy with some experience with relationships let me say that there is someone else out there who won't have a problem with your schedule. In fact they will probably celebrate the great things you are doing. In the meanwhile, enjoy the iPod!
sorry to hear abt tht..hope u r doing fine.go shop as much...take a trip down to india :)
Hey girlfriend.. I'm sorry to hear that, but looks like you seem to be coping okay (((HUGS)))
What time shall I come get you.. we need to go and get plastered.. say 7ish.. your time or mine ;o)
Ya.. you get that iPod. Great idea. You know where I am if you wanna talk. Mwah xXx
Enjoy your ipod at least it's not an hour away and it won't let you down!
Evie - I agree. Total douchebag. My iPod will be MUCH better company.
Billy - See, this is why I need to move to NY. I KNEW there was a reason. ;)
Phoenix - Haha, yeah you did Phoenix. But thanks for saying it again. You're quickly building my ego!
Mr Farty - That's damn clever.
Cheeky - Thanks. I love hugs. :) That may be me attached to my aqua ipod in a few days.
Terhune - Hey stranger! I'm glad you're back. I wondered what had happened to you!!
Yeah, sounds like you made the right decision. This time in medical school is VERY important to you & you need all the support you can get. You certainly don't need to be with someone who isn't going to support you.
It IS all about you right now. Remember that. :)
Gary - This is true, and I think I was prepared for it. And I agree, I should find someone who is a little more understanding of my schedule. But I've written off relationships, at least for a little while.
Maverick - Eh, it happens, right? Haha India ... that's an idea!
SSD - Hey boyfriend ;) haha Thanks ((hugs)) 7ish this time, you me and my friend can go get smashed! I'm excited.
EBEZP - So true ... It's there for my enjoyment for hours. ;)
I understand that perspective too.
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